getting ready to be more independent?

today when i met with my independent living services worker, she made a comment that i've been hearing a lot lately, which is, "do you have enough food in your cupboards and refridgerator?".. like people think that i'm starving or something, and that's why i can't gain weight. i said to her, "YES." then she asked me, "well, do you get enough time to eat 3 meals every day?" then i said, "usually." then she said, "well, we're gonna have to plan a grocery list for you and a time for you to get your groceries because i know that you've got a lot of appointments and you don't really have a lot of time to eat either." because that is part of my weight problem.. i honestly can't find time to eat and i eat whenever i feel hungry, so it's not like i'm starving myself either. i think part of the reason why my independent living services worker is trying to get me to start buying my own meals (because before, i'd buy myself food but i'd always have mom's meals get me meals for supper partly because i didn't know what the hell to buy for supper and partly because i didn't have time to buy myself food for supper all the time. it's called "mom's meals".. they're NOT actually meals that my mom made and/or gave me.. my insurance paid for them. i think that they're trying to break me from relying on using them, so that i can be independent for when i'm living in new york. even though, i could've sworn that rhonda told me something about getting assistance with getting food when i was living in new york and if i need it, you better believe i'm gonna use it rather than starve.